Valentine’s Day would come and go like every other day.
While it may be good to celebrate, it is very important not to get carried away with the euphoria of that day. Many people get swept away with the tide of the celebration; they are left with life-long regrets at the end. Many people don’t even know what they are celebrating but since everyone is doing it, they act on impulse and join them. Some people get worried over not having someone to spend the day with, they become desperate and unhappy. This feeling is piqued when there are people around planning all sorts of beautiful things for that day. They probably have partners that want to give them treats. Therefore, most people feel left out and try their best possible to join in the celebration against all odds.
Find below some mistakes you should avoid while celebrating the day
1. Being Vulnerable
The urge not to be left out on a special day like that makes most people want to have partners at all cost. Most people get depressed over issues like this especially when they aren’t in a relationship. Some friends could take it up on themselves to help people like that find partners for that day and be part of the celebration. The mistake people make here isn’t just hanging out with someone that day; it is when they do not know their limits and boundary with these strangers. Don’t get carried away.
2. Excessive Spending
So what if it is Valentine’s Day? Does it mean one should get broke after the celebration? Most people spend outside their budget because of this day, it is important to make your partner feel special but it is an absolute waste of resources when you spend on frivolities. Learn to streamline your spending, it is normal to want to give treats to your loved ones but avoid doing it if it means incurring debts after.
3. Chances Of Ending Up With The Wrong Person
Some people venture into a new relationship following the events that unfolds after Valentine’s Day. Spending the day with a friend doesn’t necessarily launch you into a new relationship. It could have been a fun day, leave it that way. Many people make major mistakes by venturing into a relationship with someone who they don’t know well or even mistake their being nice for love. It is important to get to know someone well before giving out essential part of you.
4. Filling Your Friends In
So the day would be a blast, other people in different parts of the world could have that too. There is no need spreading the details of the day to your friends. Many people in a bid to create gist tell their friends everything about the celebration. They unknowingly ignite the sparks of jealousy in them. They may feel your partner doesn’t deserve someone like you and do all they could to break up the relationship.
5. Temptation
Many people give in to lust when their partners aren’t around to spend the day with them. It is important to have self-control. That moment when you allow yourself to get swept by waves of emotion could cost you something more. Your relationship could crumble if your partner gets to know or you may end up being blackmailed at the long run.
6. Diseases
Many people let their guards down simply because it is Valentine’s Day. Young people make exceptions for this day and give without holding back. Most people end up having sex at the end of the day and do so with no protection. It is important to protect yourself always, don’t let moments of passion sweep you into a state of life-long torment. There are sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS is real.
7. Becoming An Unexpected Parent
Due to people getting careless and letting down their guards, most girls end up being pregnant. These pregnancies aren’t even planned for most times and the men feel like they are being forced into a union they don’t want. There’s nothing as frustrating as
While it may be good to celebrate, it is very important not to get carried away with the euphoria of that day. Many people get swept away with the tide of the celebration; they are left with life-long regrets at the end. Many people don’t even know what they are celebrating but since everyone is doing it, they act on impulse and join them. Some people get worried over not having someone to spend the day with, they become desperate and unhappy. This feeling is piqued when there are people around planning all sorts of beautiful things for that day. They probably have partners that want to give them treats. Therefore, most people feel left out and try their best possible to join in the celebration against all odds.
Find below some mistakes you should avoid while celebrating the day
1. Being Vulnerable
The urge not to be left out on a special day like that makes most people want to have partners at all cost. Most people get depressed over issues like this especially when they aren’t in a relationship. Some friends could take it up on themselves to help people like that find partners for that day and be part of the celebration. The mistake people make here isn’t just hanging out with someone that day; it is when they do not know their limits and boundary with these strangers. Don’t get carried away.
2. Excessive Spending
So what if it is Valentine’s Day? Does it mean one should get broke after the celebration? Most people spend outside their budget because of this day, it is important to make your partner feel special but it is an absolute waste of resources when you spend on frivolities. Learn to streamline your spending, it is normal to want to give treats to your loved ones but avoid doing it if it means incurring debts after.
3. Chances Of Ending Up With The Wrong Person
Some people venture into a new relationship following the events that unfolds after Valentine’s Day. Spending the day with a friend doesn’t necessarily launch you into a new relationship. It could have been a fun day, leave it that way. Many people make major mistakes by venturing into a relationship with someone who they don’t know well or even mistake their being nice for love. It is important to get to know someone well before giving out essential part of you.
4. Filling Your Friends In
So the day would be a blast, other people in different parts of the world could have that too. There is no need spreading the details of the day to your friends. Many people in a bid to create gist tell their friends everything about the celebration. They unknowingly ignite the sparks of jealousy in them. They may feel your partner doesn’t deserve someone like you and do all they could to break up the relationship.
5. Temptation
Many people give in to lust when their partners aren’t around to spend the day with them. It is important to have self-control. That moment when you allow yourself to get swept by waves of emotion could cost you something more. Your relationship could crumble if your partner gets to know or you may end up being blackmailed at the long run.
6. Diseases
Many people let their guards down simply because it is Valentine’s Day. Young people make exceptions for this day and give without holding back. Most people end up having sex at the end of the day and do so with no protection. It is important to protect yourself always, don’t let moments of passion sweep you into a state of life-long torment. There are sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS is real.
7. Becoming An Unexpected Parent
Due to people getting careless and letting down their guards, most girls end up being pregnant. These pregnancies aren’t even planned for most times and the men feel like they are being forced into a union they don’t want. There’s nothing as frustrating as
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